many mothers confide in keda, saying that their babies are particularly timid:
“my daughter is very timid, afraid of the dark, afraid of thunder, and dare not move when she sees strangers.”
“in the playground, many babies climb up and down to play, and my son silently does not dare to move.”
why are some babies timid and some babies bold?
today, the eldest of the science and technology will talk about how parents should face the timid babies at home.
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innate genes, baby timidity is normal
the baby’s timid personality tendency is mainly related to two aspects: innate genes and acquired parenting.
babies are naturally withdrawn
some babies naturally love to interact with people, and some babies are lonely by nature and are not good at interacting with people, which is caused by the baby’s personality.
development of your baby’s cognitive abilities
the baby’s cognitive ability reaches a certain level, and he begins to realize the existence of danger, but he cannot understand the logic behind things.
for example, the baby is afraid of the sounds on the tv, but the baby does not know that these sounds will not harm them.
the baby’s imagination is improved
babies aged 2 to 4 years have an increased range of motion, rich imagination, often can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and begin to dream at night, do not like to be alone, and fear the dark.
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nurtured, the baby is becoming more and more timid
the baby’s timid personality is also related to the parenting style of the parents.
parents are too protective of their babies
like what:
“don’t play with the sand, the new clothes are dirty again!”
“no, the slide is too dangerous, mom is holding you and playing!”
parents are worried that the baby is touching, falling, or soiling the clothes, excessively restricting the baby’s activities, and loudly stopping the slightest movement.