it is said that the teacher is a candle that burns itself and illuminates others. therefore, when parents mention their children’s teachers, they will involuntarily have more reverence. however, i don’t know when it began, and the behavior of some teachers made parents more and more chilled.
recently, a 3-and-a-half-year-old boy in yizhou city went to kindergarten after saying goodbye to his parents in the morning, but never returned. he was forgotten by his careless teacher in the school bus and died of dehydration in the heat. the child’s parents are devastated, and there is resentment on the internet.
of course, this kind of threat to the safety of children’s lives is after all a minority. what i want to talk to parents about today is what most kindergarten children may encounter – kindergarten cold violence.
the cold violence in the kindergarten, the children are silently suffering, but most parents do not know!
in front of their parents, the kindergarten teachers are all smiling, gentle and careful, but when the parents turn away, some teachers may be a different face.
cold violence 1: neglecting children.
after the neighbor’s little tiger went to kindergarten for a week, he refused to go again. he said the teacher didn’t like him and never paid any attention to him. when the neighbor went to the kindergarten to understand the situation, he knew that the teacher of the little tiger liked quiet and well-behaved children, and did not like the little tiger to be so lively and active, so the teacher would consciously or unconsciously ignore the little tiger, and when asking questions, even if the little tiger’s arm was raised high, the teacher would pretend not to see.
the cold violence in the kindergarten, the children are silently suffering, but most parents do not know!
cold violence 2: accuse the child and call the child stupid
every day’s grandparents are very doting on her, never willing to let her eat by herself, resulting in every day when she goes to kindergarten and will not eat independently, always scattering rice everywhere, the teacher sees the situation, just a strong scolding of every day stupid death, even eating. for a child who is more than three years old, the more the teacher scolds her, the more afraid she is, and the more afraid she is, the worse she is. in the end, i didn’t dare to eat every day.
the cold violence in the kindergarten, the children are silently suffering, but most parents do not know!
cold violence 3: isolate children
xiao xiao is a single parent, since childhood there is no father, her mother worked in other places, leaving her at home to follow her grandparents to kindergarten. however, this year’s new year, xiao xiao’s mother found that her daughter had become very withdrawn and refused to play with the children, and her mother insisted on letting her go out to play, and she would cry. ask grandpa and grandma, they don’t know what happened to their granddaughter. later, some children who went to kindergarten with xiao xiao said that the teacher usually did not let them play with xiao xiao, saying that xiao xiao was a wild child without a father. every time the teacher organizes a game, the teacher will deliberately leave xiao xiao aside. xiao xiao’s mother was angry and had to go to the teacher to theorize.
