the traditional chinese parenting concept is like this, many mothers still uphold: the concept of going out as little as possible within one year old, thinking that at this stage, as long as it is enough to eat and drink lhasa, health and safety, and when the child goes to kindergarten at the age of 3, there is naturally an opportunity to adapt to society.
this is the opposite of the concept of foreign countries, the mother may have taken the baby to the party in the month, and the small baby is often seen in the mall and the museum. many chinese mothers complain that it is because they are in better health, but there are actually deeper reasons! some western child psychologists have found that the socialization of babies before the age of 3 or even before the age of 1 is crucial to their social skills throughout life.
THEY BELIEVE THAT CHILDREN BECOME SOCIAL PEOPLE FROM BIRTH. TAKING BABIES TO ART GALLERIES AND SHOPPING MALLS IS NOT TO SEE PAINTINGS AND BUY CLOTHES, BUT TO TAKE THEM TO EXPERIENCE A VARIETY OF DIFFERENT SOCIETIES AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
the baby will have no friends in the future, do not fit in, poor popularity… just because i ignored these things before i was 3 years old!
0-6 months,
so how do small babies socialize?
1, the relationship between the mother and the baby, determines the future relationship between the ta and others
babies in the first few months of life begin to react to people. when a familiar person approaches the baby, he will be happy; if there is no one around, he may cry and start looking for someone. this is the baby’s initial social needs, and at this time, the mother is the earliest object of interaction. if the mother can meet the baby’s needs in time, he will trust the whole world and trust everyone; on the contrary, he will be skeptical of everything around him, including himself. therefore, the relationship between mother and baby determines the future relationship between ta and others.
advise moms:
meet the needs of the baby in time, including eating when hungry, sleeping when sleepy, and accompanying when bored. even if you can’t meet it right away, you must respond to the baby’s call as soon as possible, such as quickly appearing in the baby’s line of sight and saying to the baby: “the mother is ,……”
the baby will have no friends in the future, do not fit in, poor popularity… just because i ignored these things before i was 3 years old!
2. after the full moon, insist on taking the baby out every day
after the full moon, the mother’s body recovers a lot, and the baby’s body is also stronger, so it is important to ensure that you can take the baby out for a walk every day. if during this period, you can take the baby out more and contact with different environments and people at home, it will provide a more social feeling for the baby. such a baby will have fewer social problems in the future.
