the previous “mother is superman” hit, huo siyan’s family’s good family atmosphere, and the ingenious way of educating children, caused everyone’s hot discussion, everyone envied if there is a hmmm such a baby how good! huo siyan is a mother with high emotional intelligence, and is a master in family relations and parent-child education. in particular, there are several ways to bring a baby, which can be regarded as a living teaching material for parenting.
01 if your child has emotions, how should he channel them?
In one issue, Huo Siyan’s good girlfriend brought baby Leo to play, opened the door, saw the Humming Mini mini-person, but Huo Siyan was cute, and inadvertently snubbed Hmmm.
envy huo siyan has a “strength pet mother” baby, first learn how she takes the baby!
however, the attentive huo siyan immediately found that hum was unhappy and took the initiative to talk to her son: “is it because your mother ignored you?” encourage hum to speak your mind.
He also patiently explained to his son that in fact, my mother remembered you when I was a child, and my mother especially missed you when I was a child, so I liked leo who looked like you so much.
like a friend, she talks to her children as equals and tells her thoughts.
“do you think your mother loves others and doesn’t love you?”
“he looks like his mother likes him because he loves you so much.”
when hum came out of her emotions, huo siyan did not forget to guide her son, the correct way of hospitality, and did not miss every good opportunity for education.
“he’s a guest from our house.” guests should be put first. all warm hospitality. it’s a courtesy.”
after the communication, hmmm untied the knots in his heart, and his love for his mother increased unabated- “okay mom, i understand, i love you.”
02 accept your child’s imperfections and give him time to grow up
in the show, huo siyan wants to take hum to do public welfare, let him donate his own toys, to help other children, hum did not agree, said that he still wanted to play, huo siyan did not force him, but slowly to give him reason, she said that the child will have a process of slow growth, if now he does not accept, she is willing to give up letting him do this.
later, huo siyan persuaded hum to bring the toy back if he didn’t want to, and as a result, hum played well with the children there, and later even took the initiative to sell his own toys.
as du jiang, hum’s father, said, “to give him a time to grow up slowly, although there may be a long way to go before the manhood we really want to be alone”, but every small step is “part of the beginning of the man who is looking forward to the future”.
