the education act of 1956 in the united states said: “education is to help a child in the future life, more successfully seek the happiness that the child wants!” 」 what is education? education should conform to the nature of the child, education should listen to the child’s voice, education should help the child discover his talent earlier, education should help the child become himself, education should help the child find the happiness he wants in the future life.
this is not only a requirement for school education, but also family education should do this. parents should guide their children to discover their own strengths and speak out about their own strengths; build self-confidence and speak out; like themselves and be true to themselves.
frogs are handsome and can swim, and have beautiful green clothes, but they always want to learn to fly. in the constant attempts and failures, the frog’s frustration can be imagined. and in real life, don’t some children also envy others and always think that other people’s things are good things? don’t many parents always like to use “other people’s children” to educate their own children?
there are no two identical leaves in the world, nor two identical children. your child is unique! your child has his own characteristics, why do you need to do “let a fish climb the tree, go to the race” family education? conform to the child’s nature, listen to what the child thinks, help the child find his own talent, help the child to be the person he wants to be, maybe this is the role that parents should play. i hope that every child can grow up in a relaxed, warm family environment and have the opportunity to say things like the frog in the story: “i just like myself!”
