i believe that many parents will answer: smart, sensible, well-behaved. but sometimes it’s not necessarily a good thing that children are too sensible. it is said that the more well-behaved the child, the more painful, if your child has the following two performances, then he is not sensible, nor is he high emotional intelligence, but lack of love!
children have these two manifestations, not high emotional intelligence, but lack of love
first, rarely spoil your parents
normal families are happy and harmonious, and it is common for children to spoil their parents. for example, pampering parents to stay around more, play games with themselves, and so on. if your child rarely coddles you, excluding personality reasons, it is that the parents do not give him enough security. he felt that the act of spoiling would make his parents dislike it, and he was worried that he would be more neglected, so he chose to be flattering and cautious to face his parents, rather than being as innocent as other children.
second, i am very good at observing the color of words
some children around are like “little adults”, other children are childlike and unguarded, but they look very mature and know how to talk about the occasion. for example, they will take the initiative to praise the good looks, temperament, etc., which these peers basically can’t say. children who do not lack love are often lively, love to talk, and sometimes accompanied by a little willfulness, while children who lack love are often cautious, think too much, and have a sense of maturity that does not fit their age.
children lack love, look well-behaved and sensible, parents are at ease, but they will cause a lifetime of character damage to the child. children who lack calcium, lack of security, often inferior and sensitive in their hearts, are easy to form a flattering personality, and reflect on the happiness of a lifetime.
how can parents avoid their children’s lack of love?
1. spend more time with your child. if you have the ability, try to let the child grow up around the parents, rather than throwing all the brains to the elderly. usually take more time to spend with your child, even if it is only an hour of sleep.
2. encourage your child. hug and encourage your child more and fill his heart with sunshine
3. don’t throw tantrums at your child without moving. a grumpy parent who yells at his child all day will also reduce his inner sense of security.
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